Guys - the "Hawaii Types" - rehab

The Rehab victim- this one is simple. Go out, have a great time, are in public when he passes out and valets need to carry him to his car u now have to drive. IOW:- you are his "party chauffeur" 

Be sure to ask if he has any health conditions or medication. He takes before this date. Things could get gnarly to the hospital for you or him or his hapless victims.

I had one of these men seem awake when we got to his house and pass out once he opened the door. He passed on on his way out the car door and lay on the pavement by the car so I spent the night sleeping "in his car". Ugh

Guys - the "Hawaii types"- match

The Match dah cum Guy- go yuk! Then realise the bar fly guys that you recently deleted, you remember that the profile photo you clicked No!. He just sent it to you. Just hustled your number from a guy you exchanged numbers with. Go ugh, groan, grrrr as the texts flood in and you wonder how the online site gave him your contact number. Well, they didn't.

Several phone calls later & after Valentine's and Mardis gras partying with the we exchanged numbers person u met all with all his friends.... You learn he Gave ur number to the guy u deleted... Groan

Oh, and if your like me, have the online dating site as a gift from a "nice guy friend". He gets middle of the night calls from other women who used the site to date and call him because they were assaulted and need a shoulder to cry on. 

Guys - the "Hawaii types" -CL

The "Hawaii/Oahu CL guy"- gathered from a variety of sources. 

1. hpd- tries to find out where you live in less than 3minutes. Stalker? Then offers money for sex in person and if u think it's play ( like one Columbia Uni. soon to be & on vay-Kay found out) they arrest you after sex. Arrested for real. Makes u a prostitute after agreeing to a date.

2. The sexercist- wants big women, or skinny women- his plan? To have sex in exchange for trying to help the woman loose or gain weight. Online listing makes this otherwise talented person an airmatress porn star! Oh not kidding he'll offer the bigger women weight loss products so they have a friend and hope of returning. Seems agreeable? Maybe not to the last 20 women he knocked up (be mindful of dhs Mail on door when entering)

 • remember - air mattresses are disposable & anyone around won't remember you because they are entertained and repulsed by the 5-10 women that go in & out of the porn laden room in their apartment each day.

Guys- the Hawaii types

dating in Hawaii the "Hawaii Types

The K-Bay guy - the so called "Progressives" from mainland. Plenty of Jersey boys here too. snotty white men who think they are God's gift to the brown & Asian & other world. These guys  "from good families" just like Jersey, like to bring women home for dinner on the cheap then figure it's ok if you pay for more than half. They cry that it's because They are the "minority" in Hawaii. 

Usually active eco-tour types carrying a mixed message that the "stupid and cautious" Japanese tourists (ahem I'm born a dual national of Japan) will pay top dollar to do almost nothing exciting because they don't want an accident on vacation. 

Welcome to Hawaii

Common complaints about Hawaii's "local born"

1.  They talk about where they went to High school rather than College. Even In Their 20's, 30's, 40's, 50's, 60's etc

2. They seem to consider themselves  cultured" if they have gone to Las Vegas and left the Island state.

3. They don't create their own state revenue and rely largely on money coming to the islands from foreign/outside HawAiian sources. Frequently they try to do business using extortion, threat of death, etc.

4. The Honolulu Police Department officers move large quantities of Cocaine and drugs in public site and then harass and kill witnesses. (Especially in Kalihi)

5. Many of the Hapa & Asians who reside in Hawaii as "their 1st culture", play into outdated Asian stereotypes from WW2. They are also 3rd,4th, and 5th generation Americans, mostly descended from Japanese or Chinese migrant farm workers. Laying claims to "discrimination" frequently;- They seem to live off of it as a "tourist attraction that permeates many facets of modern hospitality in the islands. It is such a pathetic show of the Island's history at this point. It completely disgusts me personally. I'm sure this sentiment is shared elsewhere since even modern Japanese nationals view as major world culture as current such as European cities, New York City, Tokyo, Hong Kong.

6. Many islanders  don't like Sarcasm, yet they want to hear "no complaining" and positive words. after creating unconstitutional laws & courtsystem;- Then they insist on telling newcomers how to live on the island. This is quickly becoming my #1 reason not to spend time with people here. 

To be continued...

Hawaii men not ok for my Role

So a while ago a lawyer reminded me about the guys out

I'm Hawaii. (I'm used to white collar executives, designers, and Ivy League town). The guys in Hawaii have money from the military so they don't relate to civilian women like a University/College atmosphere. Fatherly like, he reminded me they strongly aren't my type and have money. Iow they are too rowdy, cause DV issues, and are used to the military covering their butts for their mistakes.

Today, I'm so again faced with the same thing blaring in my face as that is 70% of the working population in Hawaii.